by Lyn Lomasi, Staff Writer
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Which wolves are you feeding as you make your way through the crazy world of freelancing? According to a Native American legend, there are two different types inside each person's heart.

"A native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt. He said 'I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart. One wolf is the vengeful, angry, violent one. The other wolf is the loving, compassionate one.' The grandson asked him, 'Which wolf will win the fight in your heart?' The grandfather answered: 'The one I feed.'"

Whichever wolf you decide to feed is the one that will emerge in interactions with your audience, as well as your clients. Freelance writing often involves dealing with both negativity and positivity from fans and business contacts.

Don't starve the wrong wolf.



Lyn is the founder of Write W.A.V.E. Media, parent company to LifeSuccessfully.com and several others. She enjoys publishing freelance writers and supports advocacy through journalism. She's also a freelance web journalist, Community Guide at Yahoo! Contributor Network, and a Y! Shine Parenting Guru. The homeschool ‘Momtrepreneur’ teaches with nature, books, and play. Pet and human homelessness, green living, positive parenting, and education choice (including homeschool) are her passions. She has been published all over the web with major media companies, as well as smaller businesses and organizations. Contact Lyn for guidance in the world of freelance writing.

 


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04/07/2011 4:32pm

Such an inspirational post Lyn. Thanks for this.

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04/07/2011 5:54pm

I always loved this story and I appreciate how you applied it to our professions. Fantastic!

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04/07/2011 6:52pm

Very nice. :O)

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04/08/2011 8:58am

I have always loved that story. Thank you for reminding me of it.

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04/08/2011 9:13am

I love this! :) Thanks Lyn!

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04/08/2011 9:56am

Excellent story with a great message!

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Derek Odom
04/08/2011 10:31am

Hey super cool! I had heard that lesson before but had forgotten about it. So simple and yet so correct. Thanks!

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04/08/2011 3:36pm

oooh, I love this!! Am I feeding the wrong wolf?? We shall soon see.

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04/08/2011 4:57pm

True words we all need reminded of. I know which one I tend to feed more often, and his twin needs more attention.

Popping in by way of the A-Z Challenge. I’m blogging at:
<a href=http://www.writewrongorindifferent.com/>Write, Wrong or Indifferent</a>
<a href=http://marieannesmissives.blogspot.com/>Marie Anne’s Missives</a>
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04/08/2011 11:16pm

I don't think I've heard that story before. Definitely food for thought. ;) Thanks for sharing!

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04/08/2011 11:59pm

That is a great story. I will have to consider which wolf I am feeding the most often.

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04/09/2011 3:22am

Very nice thought for the day, Thanks Lyn.

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Theresa Leschmann
04/09/2011 4:56pm

That is an awesome story and a great parable. Popping in by way of the A-Z Challenge. I’m blogging at:
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04/11/2011 11:30am

I love Native American wisdom. This is very much like the concept of a devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other. Which one will you listen to? Great job!

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04/13/2011 7:13am

Smart grandfather.

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04/13/2011 4:00pm

Good analogy.
Hope you're enjoying the Challenge. If you miss a couple days, no big deal.

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04/14/2011 8:39pm

Great story, I remember hearing that one, too...a good reminder...thanks!
Interesting blog you have here. I'm glad I stopped by!

I found you with the ‘surprise me’ button. I’m a new follower of yours. I'd love to have you check out my take on the A to Z Challenge, comment and follow, if you'd like.
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04/22/2011 3:29pm

I'm definitely working on trying to feed the right wolf. It's not always easy though, given the dynamics of the world around me throwing challenges at me. Most challenges I can brush off, but there's a few that can irk me.

Thanks for the advice! It's a pleasure to meet you via the A-Z Challenge!

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05/19/2011 5:02pm

That's a great way to put things. I think we all have both, and although we all tend to have good intentions, the execution is a little off. I'll try not to starve the wrong wolf, but sometimes I get a little sidetracked.

Sara

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